Sunday, July 23, 2017

Four pics in a row I woke up like this! Candid Pics and hand me down clothes


I've had to practice learning how to not look wretched in pictures.
I'm admittedly late to the game, but I try.

Prime example of a pic.


What was going on with my face? I'm looking at the camera like---idk.  I like the lizard look to my face tho.  I might expand on that in a Leaving Las Vegas Lizard themed aesthetic sitch.


I can't even give an excuse, only apologies lolol



Finally!!  Sort of norm :)


That's a poser!!!!!

Wearing a hand-me-down tank top from my cousin Fran's friend!!!!!!!!!  I am a hand-me-down fanatic.
Wearing CandyMan's old school 90s silver chain necklace. 
My 90s silver hoops :D
Badly hemmed and re-let out jeans too tight from eating junk food.  I'm 41 this year and I'm back to dyeing my hair myself due to budget reasons so thank goodness I'm in the brunette zone.  I can't do my own blonde :)

Thank u to this guy <3 

The prices in the shop are dropping.

Some minor issues, but so gorgeous!!!!!





Love & Light, 
Becky 
xoxox







Friday, July 21, 2017

I've been loving reading your blogs and my to-do list is crazy and Madness by Muse and Crazy Vintage Clothes Sale

My take off the cuff----
The singer's brother died in Ireland in protests and he had a lot of issues (obvi) surrounding it and then he married Kate Hudson and fell in love and this song is about that----I think.

So, this is what Wikipedia says it's about!!!!!!!!  NO WONDER I

Wikipedia!!!!!   I was told Wikipedia is frowned upon in the world of academia, but that's not stopping me now!
Matthew Bellamy stated that the song started as a personal reflection after a fight with his girlfriend Kate Hudson, and how, after she had gone to her mother's house, he began to realise "yeah, she was right, wasn't she?"[8] In a separate interview, Bellamy stated the song was the band's attempt to strip down the sound of the album, and that the song has its roots in 12 bar blues with gospel, soul and R&B influences. He went on to conclude that, "It's the song I'm probably most proud of on the album for sure."[9]

^^^^  EVEN BETTER!!!!!!

Muse

Madness






DOING A HIGE CRAZY SALE!!!!!!!!!!!


Marking some items down
This floral beauty is only $7.89 plus shipping.

Vintage Shirt Brown White Bold Floral Tropical Print Drawstring Bow Neck Short Sleeve 70s Blouse


This was the second item I reduced and I will be continuing until----
I don't know when yet :D
Sale announced first here and more updates to follow on IG (fun pic below) and Facebook.



Looking kinda of uggghhhhh so this heavily filtered rainbowy distracting pic is perfect.


Love & Light, 
Becky 
xoxox



I swear, just since my last post this happened <3

BASEMENT POETRY CORNER


The Fair

phone back on.

car my family can fit in.

an adult.

mom.

thank you thank you thank you




Wednesday, July 19, 2017

Don't Say U Like His Mustache 101 Porn In the Dropbox MM



One of my old rly good friends popped into town this weekend and I missed an opportunity to see her.  It's been years.  We were friends in high school. I only have a couple pics tho.  An old IG post here from when we went to 'Nawlins' and like one other photo.  My lack of photos from my youth have made me way more purposeful in my picture taking now.  This blog is part of that :D
I'm lucky that Asheville is so popular and close to where CandyMan and I used to live, so we get a lot of visitors.  It's rly nice.



Used with permission from humanchuo.  Love, love, love her artwork. 

I feel particularly haggard and haggly looking lately so here is a weird GIF (pronounced jif) 

Old glasses, vintage necklace, 90s chambray 'Hot Kiss' shirt over old Target tank-top, and probably jeans.  I've been admiring blonde hair lately, but CandyMan threatens to break up with me if I bleach it again---lololol That's his way of saying he likes my hair!!!! It works tho!!  Blonde is very alluring...

I was just talking about appreciating my mom in the last post or two and she is laid up in a bad way now.  I am super worried about her.  It sucks. 


PORN IN THE DROPBOX


Tip:  U can't talk about a man's mustache or he is going to say something about a "mustache ride" or be thinking it.  Like, srsly.  I told CandMan how I was going to talk about my mature taste in men now bcuz of his attractive mustache and he immediately was like-----ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Anyways. 
Mustaches. 
LOLOL
U can't even talk about 'em w/o somebody smirking!!!  

On a more serious note, I rly liked Sara's post here about her post-cancer egg freeze sitch.
This is stuff that needs to be discussed.  This is a different kind of family planning and I think it's v relevant----important.  


Love & Light, 
Becky 
xoxox



Monday, July 17, 2017

Instagram Asheville IG Tiger Bay Cafe Graffiti Art Gucci Sunglasses Shoes Bows Purses and Leggings please

Monday round up--this week.
Where u been?  Where u at???
Back to Tiger Bay Cafe for a bite with CandyMan & Mr. PSB
(talked about here b4)


 Fun with Live Stories on Instagram


It's super cute.  

Also, I'm v into rainbow maxis and rainbow lots of stuff actually.
Kinda fun graphic I made and had not shared, but shared in honor of #iwillwearwhatilike :D
From the archives lololol 


Also, GUCCI errrrrrryting plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 


I'm wearing a Rodarte for Target collection dress I got a few years ago.  I always like the yellow mustard one the younger lady Tavi, but got my next fav choice---the beige!!! 
I luv a beige or peach dress!!!!
I tied a ribbon around my waist---same ribbons from when I dressed up here for the wedding.
Sort of black ribbon ballet dress up inspo lewks.
Latex socks and YRU black platforms shown better here


Cat ears for fun ;)




Love & Light, 
Becky 
xoxox








Sunday, July 16, 2017

Live Stories Instagram Visionary Futures Pangea Liquid dnb Krista Gargano Creative Graphic Design

I have been messing with the new Live stories on IG and I'm totally doing it.  They have super cute filters and rewind and boomerang options.







Also, this girl: Krista


She is a young woman, a millennial!!!!  Yayyyyyyy!!! 
She impresses the fuck out of me.  She's an incredible liquid dnb DJ.  #rare
There is just so much to talk about her...  This is one of her DJ sets if u want to follow her on Soundcloud.  She also runs Vinyl Revisions, and all vinyl production company. 






Here is more about her here and here and here :D

And I can't tell u how sorry I was to miss this---her 2nd time playing.  She's fly as fuk peeps.









Love & Light,
Becky
xoxox

PinkCheetahVintage


Saturday, July 15, 2017

One of the Reasons I like to Remember to Stay Different Power of Fashion and Blogging and Johnny Cash and Shelby Sells Perv on the Go

Stay different. 
I know people make fun of the idea, but when u truly use fashion as a way to express your own style to the fullest, then fashion becomes art---meaningful, representative, an aesthetic... 

This is the night we went to Pikachu's rave:




I am over 40 and I totally push the limit on how I dress.  
One of the thing's I appreciate most in CandyMan is his love and just total honest support of my style. 
I'm out there lol 


This quote was on the back of one of my first business cards. 
I've heard fashion trivialized as a vapid and materialistic industry, but we are a very powerful liberal and quite subversive community. Clothes are conceptual, necessary, practical, symbolic, natural, synthetic, historical, cultural, political, conservative, radical, artistic----
dissident in nature----and yet, popular/social...
Complex. 
Low-key art that people participate in daily almost subconsciously. 
Fashion is massive and powerful.
I'm rly proud to be working on my blog more.  

As I was typing this my hat I just bought from Depop online came in...
I came across it randomly and had been desperate to get it.  It never came back in stock---but luckily someone was ready to pass it on!!!!  Secondhand woot woot!!  So happy to finally score it.  
Made by Shelby from Perv on the Go
Annnnnnd it's like I'm proving my own point.



I had to have it in vary blue, although it does come in pink and white!
Never give up :D

More Britney









Love & Light, 
Becky

"a tiger doesn't change his stripes"








Friday, July 14, 2017

TOXIC When a southern Grandma is 'Less than Impressed" with u then u probably are a C U Next Tuesday!!!


It's Britney bitch





This is my life now
and 4ever
bcuz I will alwayzzz <3 Britney

My mother has pretty high expectations and I guess I do to.  I definitely expect responsibility, competency, fairness, justice, and selfless behavior, especially from a parent...  Amongst a thousand other things lolol!!  I was lucky to be raised by a woman like her and it's nice to get to acknowledge that while she's still here.  I get to appreciate her.  She calls things like she sees 'em and she'll face anyone or anything for her family.  She's an amazing lady.   Extended family is very important to both Shane and I----we're very lucky. It's fantastic getting to watch her with all our kids now. 


ART from The Artist Kitchen in Asheville!!!



Camo hat in full effect.  Camo discusses more here and here.
I've been living in Asheville about 3.5 years. 
I absolutely love it.

LondonDaBridge drew a picture while we hung out and gave it to the DJ's spinning that day. 


These come-ups are no joke!  She's a gamer, like Pikachu, she can draw!
Super cool.


Me, biting her style :D
Pikachu hat!  Thrifted Puma t-shirt.  Boyfriend's silver chain.



Her biting mine <3






Love & Light, 
Becky 
xoxox



                                Basement Poetry Corner



Miazma
I'm a failsafe.
When I finally know what a thing is, I know what it issssssssss.
Then I don't know anymore. 

I'm a failsafe.
And I look for other failsafes.
         
                                              #FancyBoy